The precise explanations of the Chanmyay method loop in my mind, making me question every movement and sensation as I struggle to stay present. It’s 2:04 a.m. and the floor feels colder than it should. A blanket is draped over my shoulders—not because the room is freezing, but to buffer against that specific, bone-deep stillness of the night. I feel a tension in my neck and adjust it, hearing a faint pop, and then instantly start an internal debate about whether that movement was a "failure" of awareness. I find the mental judgment far more taxing than the actual stiffness.
The looping Echo of "Simple" Instructions
Chanmyay Satipatthana explanations keep looping in my mind like half-remembered instructions. "Note this sensation. Know that thought. Maintain clarity. Stay continuous." The instructions sound easy until you are alone in the dark, trying to bridge the gap between "knowing" and "doing." Without a teacher to anchor the method, the explanations feel slippery, leaving my mind to spiral into second-guessing.
I focus on the breathing, but it seems to react to being watched, becoming shallow and forced. My chest tightens a bit. I label it mentally, then immediately question whether I labeled too fast. Or too slow. Or mechanically. This pattern of doubt is a frequent visitor, triggered by the high standards of precision in the Chanmyay tradition. The demand for accuracy becomes a heavy burden when there is no teacher to offer a reality check.
Knowledge Evaporates When the Body Speaks
My thigh is aching in a steady, unyielding way. I attempt to maintain bare awareness of it. The mind keeps drifting off to phrases I’ve read before, things about direct knowing, bare awareness, not adding stories. I laugh quietly because even that laughter turns into something to watch. Sound. Vibration. Pleasant? Neutral? Who knows. It disappears before I decide.
I spent some time earlier reviewing my notes on the practice, which gave me a false sense of mastery. On the cushion, however, that intellectual certainty has disappeared. My physical discomfort has erased my theories. The physical reality of my knee is far more compelling than any diagram. I search for a reason for the pain, but the silence offers no comfort.
The Heavy Refusal to Comfort
My posture is a constant struggle; I relax my shoulders, but they reflexively tighten again. The breath stutters. I feel irritation rising for no clear reason. I recognize it. Then I recognize recognizing it. I grow weary of this constant internal audit. In these moments, the Chanmyay instructions feel like a burden. They offer no consolation. The teachings don't offer reassurance; they simply direct you back to the website raw data of the moment.
There’s a mosquito whining somewhere near my ear. I wait. I don’t move. I wait a little longer than usual. Then I swat. The emotions—anger, release, guilt—pass through me in a blur. I am too slow to catch them all. I see that I am failing to be "continuous," and the thought is just a simple, unadorned fact.
Experience Isn't Neat
The diagrams make the practice look organized: body, feelings, mind, and dhammas. Direct experience is a tangle where the boundaries are blurred. Physical pain is interwoven with frustration, and my thoughts are physically manifest as muscle tightness. I sit here trying not to organize it, trying not to narrate, and still narrating anyway. My mind is stubborn like that.
Against my better judgment, I look at the clock. Eight minutes have passed. Time passes whether I watch it or not. The ache in my thigh shifts slightly. I am annoyed that the pain won't stay still. I wanted it to be a reliable target for my mindfulness. Instead, it remains fluid, entirely unconcerned with my spiritual labels.
The "explanations" finally stop when the physical sensations become too loud to ignore. Warmth, compression, and prickling sensations fill my awareness. I anchor myself in the most prominent feeling. I wander off into thought, return to the breath, and wander again. No grand conclusion is reached.
I don't have a better "theory" of meditation than when I started. I am suspended between the "memory" of how to practice and the "act" of actually practicing. I am sitting in the middle of this imperfect, unfinished experience, letting it be exactly as it is, because reality doesn't need my approval to be real.